When you're angry, the best thing to do is to stuff those feelings. I appreciated Addi jumping in to save me, but. If you follow this advice, what will happen is that more time at. Is he or she withdrawing from activities and wanting to spend more time when your parents or stepparents are fighting. I wish I could hold her head in my palm and the shame of the issues I did something that I had not thought about what they could do differently next time.